Is it fine if I crave for more sex than my guy? (2nd Jun 09)
I'm 23 and I'm more sexual than my fiancee. We have got engaged 2 months back. We have sex twice a week but I still crave for more. Is it wrong for me to feel so? What should a woman do when she's more sexual than her man?
Well, it's human enough to feel the need for sex. Nothing wrong about it. And, to feel more sexual than your partner is equally justified, I mean, if a guy can then why not a girl!
You should spend time with him and communicate your expectations out of the relationship, and also how you feel. In our Indian social set-up, it's considered a taboo if a girl talks about sex, she's tagged a slut; but if a guy does it 24*7...well, he's "the" man. I think it's time we girls should shun these barriers around us and ask for whatever we desire.
He's not an angel to know what you need and when you need it. It's you who has to communicate it to him. You could tell him how much he turns you on and how irresistible he is to you. Tell him how much you like his intimacy.
You will never get your way in or out of the bedroom if you stay shut. Take a step ahead, speak up and ask what you want! After all, that's what the Eve, first woman ever, did. Break the rules!!!